Pain-seekers, this option is for you! A modern take on an ancient pinching technique, you position one, two, or three of these bad boys around the edge of the nipple, then slowly slide the rings inward to create increased pressure, explains Sparks.

“The visual display is stunning and the sensation is deliciously painful and/or pleasurable,” Sparks adds. Best part: These can also be used on your clitoris or labia, too.

Teasing the line between fashion and sex toy, these cute clamps sport faux fur poms. “Try running the poms up and down your partner’s body for some light sensation play, then attach the clamps for a sexy, more intense sensation,” says Deysach. Cheers to multi-functional nipple toys!

Enjoy tongue flicks to your nips during partnered play? With the Aria Tongue Vibe, you can get that sensation during solo sex, too. “This little vibe has a flickering, vibrating bit that can feel like a lover caressing your nipples with a darting, firm tongue,” says Deysach. *Adds two to cart*

Nipple balm does to your nipples what lip balm does to your pout. But what sets this special Nip Zip balm apart is that it contains peppermint oil and cinnamon oil, which Sparks says, “gives you the coolest tingling feeling on the nipples.”

To use, massage a thimble’s worth into each hotspot, then wait two minutes. “When your partner gives your nipples the gentlest blow, lick or kiss, you’ll experience a strong and pleasurable sensation,” she says. (And yes, the balm is safe to ingest in small amounts).

Okay, so technically this is an oral-simulation vibrator for your clitoris, but guess what? The suctioning hole fits perfectly around nipples, too. This vaginal-nipple hybrid toy uses pressure-wave technology to recreate the feeling of a partner sucking on your skin, so you can orgasm fast. Not to mention, this toy has racked up dozens of glowing reviews on Amazon—and costs a fraction of the price of more fancy suctioning vibes.

These li’l suckers work by suctioning to your nips to amp up circulation and sensitivity. The gentle suction creates less intense “pain” than nipple clamps, making this toy perfect for beginners. What’s even cooler: The color of the suckers change from purple to hot pink as you become more aroused.

These nipple clamps attach to a sleek, sexy collar and leash. Each piece is detachable, so if you’re looking for some nipple play sans collar, these clamps should do the trick—but it’s also a nifty, comfortable set for kinksters and BDSM newbies alike.

The Partner Multifun from Satisfyer does exactly what it says: It brings fun to multiple areas of the body, for you and your partner. Equipped with three powerful motors (including one in each tip), the flexible vibrator works especially well on nipples. Why? You can squeeze the two pointed tips against your nips for pressure all while the buzzing gets them hot and hard. Might as well move this baby downtown when you’re done…

You could use a vibrator on your nipples—or you could use an actual vibrating nipple toy. This set of clamps has a mini (3 inch!) bullet vibrator on each piece. Bonus: They’re totally waterproof, so you can get splashy anywhere.

The Vesper isn’t just a sex toy fave because of its discreet design (it’s a sleek vibrator disguised as a statement necklace). It also falls at the perfect length to tease your nipples, making secret under-the-shirt play so easy and fun. Slip the vibe off and circle the pointed tip around your nips to take things up a notch when you’re ready to move to a more, er, private spot.

Like the contrast of a little “pain” with a lot of pleasure? These guys are for you. With comfortable rubber-gripped clamps to tease your nipples and feathered puffs to tickle your breasts, they’re a one-stop shop for better boob play. Plus, they look really sexy on…

Don’t be freaked by this nipple toy: It’s much less scary than it appears. For anyone who likes the “hurts so good” sensation (think: biting), the spiky pinwheel delivers the most exceptional experience. Roll it around and over your nipples, starting gently and increasing in pressure as you get more (and more) excited.

If you’ve already tried regular ol’ nipple clamps, why not give this weighted press a shot? Each comes with four clamps for pinpointed pressure and weighted balls to heighten stimulation.