You already know the obvious: masturbation feels good. But what you maybe didn’t know? Using a vibrator can also do wonders for your mental and physical health.

Among its many benefits are better sleep, a happier mood, and even pain relief. “Vibrators can also help your body learn to respond to a variety of sensations,” says certified sex therapist Kat Van Kirk. And the perks don’t stop there. It can ultimately even lead to better sex.

See some of the best vibrators for women, below:

“One of the top benefits of using a vibrator is that you get to know your own pleasure zones,” says Taylor Sparks, erotic educator and founder of OrganicLoven.com. “If you don’t know what pleases you, it will be a challenge to explain it to your lovers.”

If you already have a vibrator and are looking to switch it up, or have never had one and are ready to experience toe-curling pleasure, bookmark these tips and the list below.

What to consider before buying a vibrator:

Before shopping, it’s important to start getting in touch with your body to understand where you like to be stimulated—and how, says certified sexologist Alexandra Fine. “Consider what type of experience you want this tool to help you unlock,” she says.

For example, if clitoral stimulation is your focus, get a vibe that mimics the feeling of oral sex. If penetration’s more your thing, you’ll want a bigger vibrator with internal stimulation features. And hey, there are many that do both at the same time—there’s no need to settle when it comes to taking your pleasure into your own hands (literally).

Here are a few things you should keep in mind before making your purchase:

Battery Life

The battery life of your vibrator will depend on how the device operates. “Vibrators are usually measured in hourly life versus day or week, with traditional battery-operated vibrators lasting about two hours,” says ob-gyn and chief medical officer at VSPOT, Monica Grover. “For rechargeable devices, their time range is usually around 60-90 minutes.”

Buy one that can hold enough charge for your needs. There’s nothing worse than your vibrator’s battery giving out just before you reach that O.

Body-Safe Materials

When it comes to using a vibrator, you’ll want to make sure the one you’re using is made from body-safe materials and free of anything you’re personally allergic to—like latex for example.

“If the brand is not completely transparent about what goes into their toys, shop elsewhere,” says Taraneh Nazem, MD, reproductive endocrinologist, infertility specialist, and ob-gyn at RMA of New York. “Always look for ones that say ‘phthalate-free’ or ‘paraben-free.'”

These will usually be labeled ‘non-toxic.’ You should also try to stick to vibrators that are non-porous as [porous vibes] are harder to clean and can harbor bacteria, adds Dr. Nazem.

Cost

The price of a vibrator will depend based on the type, brand, and materials it’s made with, but you’ll be happy to know you can find ones at every price point. “For instance, bullet vibrators that don’t have many settings are usually around $10, or you can also choose to invest in a high-tech vibrator that can peak at as high as $1,000,” says Dr. Grover.

Size

Vibrators come in a variety of shapes and sizes and you’ll need to find one that best suits your needs. “Size is an absolute preference for the user, and usually you’ll find what works for you based on efficiency and pleasure,” says Dr. Grover. Aside from the size, you may also have preferences on its design, shape, and discreteness, adds Dr. Grover.

Ahead, sex experts share their picks for the 34 best vibrators and sex toys of 2023, whatever your ~vibe~ is (lol, get it?)

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1. Best Dual-Ended Vibrator: Eve’s Thrusting Wand

“This toy is one of my personal favorites when it comes to multiple orgasms and a pleasure-filled sexual experience,” says Joanne Encarcion, sex and relationship coach. “It’s great for those who want to play with G-spot stimulation and a little perineum (the area between the genitals and anus) play.” (Pssst…it’s also waterproof.)

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2. Best Nipple And Clit Toy: Rose Massager

Explore what feels good with this palm-sized rose vibe that’s all about external pleasure. The flexible build allows you to concentrate the vibrations on your clitoris. Not your thing? Hold the vibe to your nipples to mix things ups. This pick’s rechargeable and tiny enough to bring with you anytime to any place.

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3. Best Couples Vibrator: We-Vibe Unite

Looking for a toy that you can use with your S.O., too? The We-Vibe Unite is perfect for slipping in between you and bae. It stays put while it pulses, allowing you the freedom to caress yourself elsewhere or keep grinding along with its vibrations.

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4. Best Egg Vibrator: Lovense Lush 3

This vibe makes for a hands-free experience. The larger, egg-shaped arm goes inside your vagina while the longer arm remains outside the body to rest on your clitoris. All the customization happens on your phone. Sync the Lush 3 to your Bluetooth and select from three speeds and four vibration patterns that are sure to get your rocks off.

Want a partner to join in? Hand them the phone to take control of your pleasure from wherever they are.

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5. Best Jack Rabbit Vibrator: Thrusting Vibrator

Remember that vibrator that literally kept Charlotte in bed for days in Sex And The City? Well, that’s this guy. Let me introduce you to the Thrusting Jackrabbit, a tool that stimulates both your G-Spot and clitoris *at the same time* while thrusting in and out of your vagina. It’s made with little orbs that whirl around while it pulses for increased stimulation, too. Engle says that “vibrators are a tool for female sexual liberation,” and honestly, the rabbit will make you feel liberated as hell.

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6. Best Multi-Mode Toy: Femme Fun Ultra

“I always recommend a bullet vibrator to start, preferably one that can offer both external and internal stimulation,” Sparks says. And this is the one she suggests the most. “It offers 20 vibration modes, so it’s perfect for the beginner. It can also be used both internally and externally. Plus it’s waterproof, USB-rechargeable, and small enough for travel.”

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7. Best Massage Wand: Nirvana By Bellesa

This wand boasts the ability to combine luxury with affordability, making it ideal for beginners. Made of trusty silicone (which isn’t porous, cleans easily, and won’t hold onto any bacteria that could transfer into your bod) and rechargeable for easy use, the Nirvana is the new go-to vibe. Encarcion claims this is one of the best wands she has ever owned. Plus, she says it’s a really great bath buddy.

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8. Best Air-Pulsating Vibrator: Starlet Clitoral Stimulator

The Womanizer Starlet is Engle’s favorite toy for beginners (and more than a few Women’s Health editors). “You turn it on, put the nozzle over the glans, and bam, you’re having an orgasm in just a few minutes,” she says. For those of you who’ve never had an orgasm before, Engle says using the Womanizer is “a fabulous way to find out what you like without any guesswork.”

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9. Best Double-Sided Vibrator: Indulge

For a bit of variety, opt for this pick which features a vibrating and non-vibrating side made of body-safe silicone that’s easily cleaned and non-porous. Designed by an actual sexologist, switch between ends depending on your mood. Or bring this out when you’re with a partner who also enjoys penetration. Put the vibrating side in you and the other end in them. All vibrators from Bloomi, a female-founded start-up, are affordable and toxin-free.

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10. Best Flexible Vibrator: Soraya 2

Let’s be real: You deserve some luxury during “me” time. The Soraya Wave is the extravagant cousin to the traditional rabbit vibrator, according to Encarcion. “What I love about this toy is its ergonomics. It’s skillfully designed to hit just the right angle for every body type,” Encarcion says. If you need even more reason to invest in this vibe, you should know it’s whisper-quiet and features a flexible body that feels like it was made just for you.

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11. Best Rabbit: LELO Ina 3

This multipurpose vibrator’s packing not one, but two motors to power it. The curved shaft goes in deep to hit your G-Spot, while the rabbit ear stimulates your clitoris at the same time. This pick promises to be “whisper quiet,” but no promises you’ll be once you start using it.

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12. Best G-Spot-Clit Vibe: Womanizer Duo 2

Ever heard of a blended orgasm? Allow the Womanizer Duo to introduce you. The curved arm takes care of your G-spot while the other end pumps air on to your clitoris to mimic the feel of someone going down on you. Switch between 14 suction intensity levels and 10 vibration patterns that are sure to get you off in more ways than one.

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13. Best Vibrator For Partners: Eva II

Once placed into the vulva, the Eva couple’s vibrator locks in to place, elevating pleasure for both partners. It’ll likely stay in place, but if for some reason it doesn’t during those more adventurous positions, the help of a single finger will do the trick.

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14. Best Oral-Mimicking Vibrator: LELO Ora 3

This ring-shaped vibrator is super small, but delivers big on its licking (and sucking) capabilities. You’re going to see a whole lot of LELO’s award-winning products on this list, and with good reason—their products are super luxe, effective, and high-quality. Your bod deserves the best.

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15. Best Ergonomic Vibrator: LELO Nea 2

Not only does this vibe come in a versatile shape—perfect for testing out in every nook and cranny—but it also has eight powerful vibration settings, is waterproof, USB-rechargeable, and made of body-safe plastic, says Janet Brito, AASECT-certified sex therapist.

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16. Best Panty Vibrator: We-Vibe Moxie

Wearable (a.k.a. panty) vibrators are awesome, and this one is no exception: It’s mini, contoured, super soft, and quiet. Just slip it into your underwear before dinner, and hand off control to a partner via the remote or mobile app.

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17. Best Necklace Vibrator: Vesper

The best part about jewelry that doubles as a sex toy? “They’re great for an impromptu rendezvous,” says Fine. But even though Vesper’s surface is smooth, you might want to make it feel even sleeker by pairing it with water-based lube for optimal stimulation.

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18. Best Travel Vibrator: Hide & Play Lipstick

Brito loves this travel-sized lipstick vibe for stashing in a suitcase or even a carry-on bag. Powered by eight rumbling pulses and vibration options, solo travel has never been so sexy.

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19. Best Anal Vibrator: Vibrating Power Beads

This wand is super special because the shaft bends however you please. You might curve it into a V-shape and use it for both penetrative and clitoral stimulation at once. Looking to try anal, but getting some first-time nerves? This beginner’s anal vibrator is tapered and gentle enough that you can insert it without it feeling too intense (but make sure you use it with water-based lube).

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20. Best Metal Vibrator: Crave Wink+

This super-smooth metal vibrator is made of stainless steel. Not only does it look super sleek, it offers five different power levels and two vibration modes, making it incredibly versatile.

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21. Best Silicone Bullet Vibrator: LELO Mia

Just here to put yet another bullet vibrator on your radar. The VeDo Bam Bullet has 10 different vibration patterns and is made of soft silicone. While it might be little, this one packs quite the punch. Like Sparks, Engle says bullet vibrators are “the best place to start,” since they focus on the glans (a.k.a. your clit’s head), which is “where the vast majority of women discover their potential for orgasm and pleasure.” Sold.

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22. Best Nubbed Vibrator: Nubby Finger Vibrator

As far as vibrators go, the Nubby is pretty affordable. But don’t mistake the low price point for lack of quality. The toy’s finger ring provides targeted control, while the clitoral stimulator and its pleasure nubs go to work on your clitoris.

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23. Best Penis-Shaped Vibrator: King Cock 12″

Want internal pleasure? Want to reach where your fingers can’t? If so, the King Cock vibrator might be your perfect match. Shaped like a 12 inch-long penis and with a special ringed handle for optimal movement, this vibe is meant for insertion and can reach all the way up to your G-spot. It’s 100-percent waterproof (perf for taking into baths and showers).

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24. Best Sonic Vibrator: Sona Cruise

The Lelo Sona Cruise is here to stimulate all your clitoral needs. It mimics the sensation of oral sex and the harder you push it against your skin, the more it increases the vibration intensity (v special feature). It uses sonic waves to deliver vibes to your clit without actually touching it, which is huge for those who can’t handle a lot of direct clitoral stimulation.

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25. Best Tiny Vibrator: Pom

This tiny vibe fits right in the palm of your hand and bends at your will. It has a super-powerful motor and comes in two cute colors. Fine recommends humping the toy between your legs or sliding it in your panties. “It’s my personal fave,” she adds.

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26. Best Finger Vibrator: The Fin

This water-resistant finger vibe is perfect for both solo masturbation and partnered sex. The band wraps around your fingers, making it easy to lose yourself in the sensation without losing grip on the toy. “The Fin is a great choose-your-own-adventure toy, since it can easily be integrated into whatever you’re already doing with your hands,” says Fine.

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27. Best Vibrating Clamps: Vibrating Nipple and Clit Teasers

This set of super-powerful nipple teasers will prolong your pleasure all night long. (The best part? They’re totally hands-free.) If nipple stimulation isn’t your thing, you can adjust the silicone attachment for clitoral, penile, or internal vaginal play.

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28. Best Gender-Friendly Vibrator: Enby

Enby is considered the first gender-neutral vibrator because of its innovative multi-body design. Rub the flexible silicone tip around your clitoris or flip the toy around so that the triangular base sits at your perineum. Or, place yourself on top and use a humping rhythm to experience a wave of stimulation with each stroke.

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29. Best Rabbit Vibrator: Rabbit Bullet

The Je Joue Rabbit bullet vibe combines the size and power of a bullet with the huggable “ears” of a rabbit vibrator. You can use it to envelope the hood of your clit or massage your vulva with the bullet’s base. Because the Rabbit Bullet is so dynamic, it’s sure to bring you all the orgasmic exploration you need. Bonus: “They tend to be quieter than larger vibrators,” says sex expert Jess O’Reilly, author of The New Sex Bible and host of the @SexWithDrJess podcast. So if you’ve got roommates, this one’s for you.

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30. Most Discreet Vibrator: Bang! Bullet

The definition of small but mighty, this pretty li’l bullet vibe will not disappoint. With 21 vibration combinations and a remote that works from up to 25 feet away, this tiny vibrator is perfect for endless fun when you’re home alone or at dinner while your partner controls the remote (*wink wink*).

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31. Best Glass Wand: Spiral Glass Dildo

If you’re interested in some vaginal self-massage, try this glass wand made for internal stimulation. The raised spiral increases inner traction, and the bulbous tip is designed to hit your G-spot.

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32. Best for Blended Orgasms: LELO Enigma

The Engima is built to mimic the best kinds of human touch. It offers all-in-one G-spot and clitoral stimulation and it’s bound to leave you in blended orgasm bliss. “The clitoral mouth mimics the sensation of stroking and sucking and the G-spot massager gives you stimulation to both pleasure points,” Encarcion says.

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33. Best Hands-Free Vibrator: Le Wand Point

Sex experts love this vibe for its sleek, yet intense design. It fits comfortably into your hand, but also works completely *hands-free* with its perfectly designed weight and shape. Just rest it where you want and let it go to work. Bonuses? It’s waterproof and has easy-to-control vibration modes, per Encarcion. You’ll def wanna get this one in rose gold.

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34. Most Powerful Bullet Vibrator: Zee

Instead of silicone, the Zee is made from a type of silky-smooth plastic called ABS (which, fun fact—Legos are also made from), then coated with a soft-touch spray. Why, you ask? Because this thinner material makes room for Zee’s super-powerful motor, which many bullet vibrators don’t have.