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Chances are that you already have a trusty vibrator you reach for on the regular. But if your bedroom bestie isn’t a remote control model (or—hint, hint—one of the latest Wi-Fi sex toys) it’s time to at least try adding one to your collection. Trust, you’ll probably enjoy experimenting.
The truth of the matter is remote, Bluetooth, WiFi, or app-controlled vibrators give you way more control than most manual options allow. Some of them even work when the toy and remote or app are miles, countries, or oceans apart (pretty crazy stuff, right?). They’re a great way to spice up a long distance relationship, situationship, and everything in-between.
If your high-tech vibrator’s just not giving you the orgasm you crave, you can easily change its settings without pausing and having to get back into the groove. “Remote-powered vibrators allow you or a partner to adjust the speed and settings without reaching down between your legs,” says sex educator Jess O’Reilly, host of the @SexWithDrJess podcast.
Peep a few of the best remote control vibrators, below:
But word to the wise: Try testing these out solo before introducing them to your partner (yes, this may mean trying your panty vibrator during a solo dinner). It never hurts to spend as much time as you can getting to know your body. In fact, it can really be an act of self love and care.
After all, “knowing where you enjoy and how you enjoy being touched can save a lot of time and effort with a new or current lover,” says Taylor Sparks, erotic educator and founder of OrganicLoven.com.
Ready to press play (and sooo many other buttons)? These 18 best remote-control vibrators will deliver pleasure right to your door:
Lelo’s Tiani is a bestseller, and it’s easy to see why. This couples sex toy features an arm that vibrates inside you, while another massages your clitoris. It sends out vibes that’ll enhance sensations for your partner, too. Control the action with a motion-sensing remote that adjusts the intensity with a flick of your wrist.
Rave Review: “Game changer for me and hubby. I was skeptical, but we BOTH loved the hands-free stimulation. So glad we went for this one!”
If your partner has a penis, consider switching things up and giving this vibrator a go. It’s designed to stimulate the prostate, a major source of pleasure for him. It offers several vibration modes and two different internal vibrators to suit whatever gets them going, all controlled by a wireless remote. Not to mention, it’s totally waterproof. The possibilities are endless…
Rave Review: “This seriously blew my mind. Cycling through the settings, I found that some were much better at reaching two or three climaxes in one session. I’m glad nobody was home when I was using the Hugo—I might have gotten a little loud. What an unbelievably pleasurable feeling.”
Insert this “love egg” into your vagina, and use the remote to put it into high gear. Or, you can massage the vibrating egg around your lady bits for serious clitoral stimulation, like a trusty bullet.
Rave Review: “This awesome product got here fast and was packed very well. I’ve had one before and I highly recommend it.”
Don’t let this panty vibe’s size fool you: While it’s just three inches-long, it delivers plenty of power with three speeds and seven vibrations. Mantric is covered in smooth silicone and discretely slips into your underwear. Pass your partner the remote and let them go to work.
Rave Review: “I got this for my partner and I to have a little fun with. We went out for dinner and let’s just say it was a very interesting meal. The vibrations from this device were amazing and the material is super smooth. I left the establishment a very happy customer.”
Give your clit the love it deserves with this remote-controlled vibrator. It comes with nine vibration patterns you can use for some next-level fun. Plus, it’s easily rechargeable so you never have to worry about it being dead for too long.
Rave Review: “I bought this to liven up a night away with my wife. The materials are high-quality with a smooth and soft texture. Being new to these, we found it a little difficult to insert, but once we got going it was fantastic. The G-spot vibration gave us both an enhanced experience while the clitoral vibration took her to a new level.”
This Bluetooth vibrator makes it easy for your partner to control your orgasms from just about anywhere, but the super quiet ~vibes~ will keep your secret safe. Moans of pleasure are another story, tho.
Rave Review: “This is amazing. My husband is a truck driver, so the fact that he can still please me from miles away is great. It lasts for hours and certainly gets the job done.”
“Since its introduction, we’ve had a hard time keeping this vibe in stock!” says Amy Boyajian, cofounder of online sexual wellness shop Wild Flower. “The Moxie is small, quiet, and discreet—yet powerful. It works by using a magnet to keep it in place on your underwear or clothing and the app [allows for] control on your phone.” How fun!
Rave Review: “This toy was surprisingly small when I opened the package, but don’t let that fool you—it has some of the most intense vibrations out of any of my other battery-powered toys.”
Any We-Vibe vibrator is a couples favorite for a reason: You can control it manually or use the wireless remote controller. “I like the We-Vibe because you can program it to vibrate according to your preferred rhythm,” says O’Reilly. Plus, it’s “whisper quiet” so you don’t have to worry about disturbing any, ahem, roommates.
Rave Review: “According to my wife, this is a high-quality toy that can be worn discreetly. Vibrations are more than effective—I wouldn’t use this in a place where it is important that you be covert in your play (unless the user has a master poker face).
If you haven’t tried a G-spot and clitoral-stimulating dual vibrator, you’re missing out. Unlike traditional vibrators, this one bends at various angles to pleasure anyone’s anatomy, just the way you like it. Plus, just like many of We-Vibe’s vibrators, it can easily be controlled by the app you connect it to.
Rave Review: “This has a great shape and lovely silicone material! The Bluebooth function is easy to use and perfect for connecting with people who live halfway across the world! Highly recommend.”
Featuring pleasure air technology, an ergonomic shape, and body-safe silicone, this vibrator surrounds the clit with soft, pulsating waves and gentle suction without even touching it. It connects to an app so your S.O. can control your orgasm from miles away.
Rave Review: “I cannot recommend this toy anymore than I have. It’s very easy to use, the Bluetooth connectivity is easy to work, and its long-distance compatibility is amazing.”
This ring has a little something for you and your partner. Simply slip it onto their erect penis, choose from 30 different vibrations (not a typo), and do what you do best. The rabbit ears will give you a nice clitoral massage in the process.
Rave Review: “Purchased this to replace an older cock ring. Had I known the intensity, pleasure, and orgasms this would bring, I’d have purchased it the second it hit the shelf. 10/10 would recommend.”
This panty vibrator is so quiet, you can’t even hear it. The question is: Can you be discreet in public? Only if you’re able to withstand the seven settings of intense but pleasurable vibrations.
Rave Review: “This thing is POWERFUL. I’ve used it a few times now and it works like a charm! A bit of a learning curve to figure out how many pushes on the button does what, but the booklet helps in explaining.”
You don’t need to choose between external or internal pleasure with this waterproof, remote-controlled bullet vibrator that’s perfect for both. And if you want to lay back and let this little device do the work, turn on the vibrator’s “intelligent mode”. It’ll take you through a series of multiple intensity levels, in case you want to mimic the real thing.
Rave Review: “I love this remote! It’s much easier than using a toy with settings on the toy itself. And if your partner uses it on you, you can hold the remote to change the settings. The highest setting is just powerful enough.”
This app-controlled sex toy set vibrates, warms, and pulses, and you can control just how much with over 64 combinations of those functions. Each use will make you feel like you’re getting to know a brand new toy. In the set, you get one vibrator with a sleeve over it—use it with or without the sleeve depending on how large of a surface area you want to stimulate.
Rave Review: “This was my first Zalo toy, and I liked it so much I recommended it to two friends. It was the first toy I had used that got the G-spot really well, but I definitely would suggest using it with the app for best results. I don’t know why it’s so much better, but it is.”
Beware: In the right hands, this remote and app-controlled bullet vibrator can deliver explosive pleasure. It packs 36 patterns of waves and levels of adjustable intensity. Use it at home or discreetly wear it while you’re out.
Rave Review: “I love this product! I simply plug in the USB to charge in the morning and when I get home from work it’s ready to go! Unlike the men in my life, it’s great!”
Try not to let the skimpiness of these wearable vibrator undies be discouraging. You can put the mini toy in the crotch of any pair of panties, then slide the remote-control ring on your finger—or hand it off to your partner.
Rave Review: “Took this for a weekend getaway and I am very happy with the way this product performed. It is very discreet but powerful. The wife loved it and so did I. Very happy with this purchase.”
Want to experiment with anal play? Look no further than this remote control sex toy, which has a rotating-bead feature to create a rimming sensation that feels (kinda) like the real thing. Give control to your partner, or—since this is your butt, after all—speed the vibration up slowly on your own. Just remember: use lube.
Rave Review: “I’ve been eyeing this toy for a while. Pulled the trigger and am so glad I did. First of all, this is the nicest butt plug I have ever used. Not because of the price, but because of the quality. The toy is on the larger side for beginners, but the size really helped keep it in when you use it.”
This vibrating dildo allows for handheld or suction-cup-assisted play, making penetrative solo sex easier. “It can also be a great addition to partnered or group sex,” says Boyajian. The ridges feel great internally, too—just steer clear if this one if you’re particularly sensitive.
Rave Review: “This can really add some spice to the bedroom and get you to ecstasy. The stimulator for the clit and speed settings can provide amazing bliss.”
How Our Team Chose The Best Remote Control Vibrators
For the past few months, Women’s Health editors, including associate commerce editor Lily Wohlner, senior commerce editor Neha Tandon, and love and life editor Lydia Wang tested the bestselling, most popular, and top-rated remote-controlled vibrators. Our team consulted four sex experts, and then evaluated thousands of customer reviews and ratings to narrow down the best remote control vibrators for a wide range of preferences.
What are the benefits of remote control vibrators?
1. You can excite your partner at unexpected moments, and vice versa.
Whether you decide to tease your S.O. by fooling around with the remote when you’re in a group setting or during date night, starting the evening with some hands-free foreplay will undoubtedly lead to a sex session later. “The element of surprise is an amazing addition to the bedroom, but it can be difficult to achieve without this feature,” says Dominique Karetsos, resident sex expert at vibrator brand MysteryVibe.
2. They’re clutch for long-distance couples.
Hot tip: You don’t even have to be in the same place as your partner when you use one of these babies—a handy hands-free feature, no? “Some app-enabled vibrators allow you to play with someone who is in another room or even on another continent,” O’Reilly says. (Game. Changer.)
3. It can help you try new positions—with O-mazing results.
Oh, and last but not least? In certain sex positions, accessing manual buttons on a vibrator can be annoyingly difficult. “The ability to operate a vibrator remotely allows you to try more experimental positions while still experiencing maximum pleasure,” Karetsos explains. Three cheers for technology!
Associate E-Commerce Editor
Lily Wohlner is the Associate E-Commerce Editor of Women’s Health. An expert in recommending the best products to add-to-cart, she knows what it takes for a product to receive a solid five stars (especially when it comes to beauty!). Starting her career as a freelance makeup artist, Lily has since moved to the editorial world, where she has generated content for brands including Oribe, NewBeauty, Dermstore, SkinStore, and LOOKFANTASTIC. When she’s not zenning out with a pore-clearing mask, the Lower East Side dweller is cheffing up a new recipe with her roommate or thrifting for the perfect pair of blue jeans. Follow her on Instagram.
Love & Life Editor
Lydia Wang is the love & life editor at Women’s Health, where she writes and edits articles about sex, relationships, identity, and pop culture. She lives in New York and spends way too much of her free time reading romance novels in coffee shops and tweeting about her favorite dating shows.
Senior Commerce Editor
Neha Tandon is the senior commerce editor of Women’s Health—she’s an expert in discovering the best products and services you can buy and giving recommendations. She discovered her love for magazines when as a teen, she started stealing her mother’s magazines. Determined to see more women who look like her and her family members on the glossy covers of magazines, she was guided by seasoned editors and mentors to write for brands including New York Magazine, Cosmopolitan, BRIDES, Harper’s Bazaar, Business Insider, Byrdie, and Well+Good. When she’s not grilling dermatologists about the latest skincare trends, she’s doing candlelit yoga or watching Humphrey Bogart movies over vegan pizza. Follow her on Instagram.
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