A self-described “ocean dweller,” Tyler Stanaland is a man of many talents. When he’s not selling homes, he’s catching waves. Big ones. A single glance at his Instagram, and you’ll see how much he loves being in the water.

Tyler comes from a long line of realtors (five generations!) and grew up working at the family brokerage alongside his father, his O Group profile says. “I remember the first time I called Jason to talk about the show and it instantly felt more like friends catching up than a boss/employee conversation,” he told US.

Tyler used to be married to actress Brittany Snow of Pitch Perfect fame, but the two split last year (very shortly after season 1 released on Netflix…).

And, while Tyler seemed the least interested in being on reality TV, he certainly didn’t escape unscathed. From Kayla’s kiss attempt to Alex Hall’s incredibly flirty “nosies” scene, Tyler quickly found himself wrapped up in plenty of drama. The looming divorce obviously didn’t help things.

“Alex Hall and I are great,” he recently told E! News. “She has been somebody that’s been, you know really influential during this time and helped me out in a lot of ways and taken me to dinner when I needed it most. And she’s been a really good friend.” He also added that she’s “been really great to me.

Instagram: @tylerstanaland